Parents & Students
Middle School Development Chart

THE STUDENT IN THE MIDDLE SCHOOL
PHYSICALLY



10-11 YEAR OLDS TEND TO:
12 YEAR OLDS TEND TO:
13-14 YEAR OLDS TEND TO:
  • be involved in a period of brain growth
  • show rapid increase in weight (girls)
  • be willing to work hard to acquire skills
  • display awkwardness, restlessness and "laziness" as a result of uneven growth
  • show beginning signs of secondary sex characteristics
  • show an increased appetite
  • be at a plateau in brain growth development
  • experience rapid growth
  • be self-conscious about trying to learn new physical skills
  • experience periods of extreme fatigue
  • be self-conscious about sexual development
  • be capable of initiating good personal hygiene habits
  • be approaching a new period of brain growth and development
  • experience uneven bone-muscle growth; experience variety of growth development
  • be easily upset if they are not physically coordinated or physically attractive
  • be extremely restless
  • need daily release of energy
  • tire easily and be reluctant to admit it
  • have difficulty accepting body changes

THE STUDENT IN THE MIDDLE SCHOOL
INTELLECTUALLY

10-11 YEAR OLDS TEND TO:
12 YEAR OLDS TEND TO:
13-14 YEAR OLDS TEND TO:
  • need reinforcement of basic skills
  • function at literal thinking levels
  • be oriented to the present
  • view ideas and facts in isolation
  • make simple generalizations
  • begin to develop reasoning skills
  • handle formal operations and abstract thinking on a limited basis
  • need encouragement to work to the maximum of their intellectual ability
  • be able to refine reasoning skills
  • have difficulty acquiring new conceptual skills
  • begin to think for themselves
  • begin to understand abstract ideas like "justice," "honesty"
  • demand privileges but avoid responsibility
  • develop "hero" type worship--often a sports figure or entertainer
  • like to discuss their experiences with adults
  • see relationships between similar concepts
  • have fluctuating interests
  • be easily discouraged
  • have varying range of creative expression
  • be capable of exploring and selecting learning materials on their own
  • be trusted to assume personal responsibility for their own learning

THE STUDENT IN THE MIDDLE SCHOOL
EMOTIONALLY

10-11 YEAR OLDS TEND TO: 12 YEAR OLDS TEND TO: 13-14 YEAR OLDS TEND TO:
  • be emotional about body changes
  • have difficulty controlling emotions
  • display highly variable interests
  • have outbursts such as crying, fighting and swearing due to overexertion
  • worry over school work, exams and report cards
  • have rather sensitive feelings
  • have ambivalent attitudes -- want to be independent and yet hold to delights of childhood
  • rebel at the idea of having a babysitter
  • confide in an adult outside of family rather than parents
  • be anxious about the normality of development
  • be easily angered and take longer to recover than when they were younger
  • vacillate among interests
  • exhibit erratic behavior
  • realize their independence within the family structure is deepening
  • learn to think feel and act in a role congruent with their sex
  • identify and relate to the behaviors inherent in sex roles

THE STUDENT IN THE MIDDLE SCHOOL
SOCIALLY

10-11 YEAR OLDS TEND TO: 12 YEAR OLDS TEND TO: 13-14 YEAR OLDS TEND TO:
  • begin to break away from parental control
  • be concerned with standards set by peer group
  • be able to display teamwork
  • be concerned with privacy in the home
  • show interest in the opposite sex/be teasing
  • have critical attitudes toward home, parents and society in general
  • show independence in choice of friends
  • be concerned with group loyalty
  • crave periods of being alone
  • exhibit an indifference to adults, especially teachers and parents
  • be concerned with presenting a positive image for the peer group
  • strive to conform in order to achieve peer acceptance
  • be continuously changing friends, depending on peer pressures and changing interests, needs and wishes
  • begin to explore aspects of their sexuality